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09/06/2017 6:02 pm  

Hi Everyone, Trying out this topic for those who could use help right now with emotional support.  Perhaps the political climate and the climate climate are getting to you.  Or perhaps you have a way of coping that others could benefit from hearing about.

Or perhaps you are intuitively sensitive, maybe very empathic, and feel like an emotional roller coaster trying to cope with a stressed out, sometimes distraught, and often chaotic collective conscience.  

Or you struggle thinking about the suffering of those who are being marginalized these days, or victims of climate disasters. Or you are worried about your children' s futures. Whatever the problem, there likely are a few of you who can lend a sympathetic ear and/or even help with ways to ride the waves of stress. 

At least once a day I read something in the press that makes me furious,  sad, or terrified. What fears pop up for you?  What sadness? And what really pisses you off?   How do I cope?  I have many ways, including just reading this site, and feeling the connection with all of you.  Often I have my dog take me for a walk.  I follow her cue and just hang outside, breathing in the air, immersing myself in nature. Or I read over the positive predictions. Breathe.  Make a gratitude list. If all else fails, watch something really funny.  Or go for a swim.

So how are you doing today? Feel free to let it rip. 


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09/06/2017 9:53 pm  

There's no doubt in my mind that the recent eclipse and Mercury Retrograde stirred my stuff and wrecked havoc on communications in my world.  For example, I lost years of work I had on a hard drive.  I could just feel the nasty static of it lift and roll away the other day with a big whew.  Life is really hard right now for so many.  Maybe it's a matter of location and age, but I feel grateful for how kind life is to me right now.  I'm really grateful that I have employment that allows me an opportunity to serve others.  I keep pondering the Forum topic about personal change during this period of time and thinking about it.  For the first time I'm entertaining the idea of aliens and not just dismissing it.  For the first time I'm thinking about how primitive I am as a human being living in a world with other human beings.  I'm also thinking a lot about how and why people are so polarized and what can be done to heal division.  I know things are politically and environmentally awful right now, but I want to invest in hope.  


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09/07/2017 9:19 am  

I'm new and posted this last night under wrong topic. I meant to post here. I have been following this website for a few weeks, just reading and looking at what everyone is saying. I have had dreams, feelings and words out of no where telling me of what is about to happen or future events.   I have felt different or strange.  I have kept quite or not told people. I journal but am afraid to write what I hear because it might happen. I heard a voice last week say calm before the storm and thought florida. I refused to write it down in my journal. I was afraid what it might bring. I am looking for direction. What am I supposed to do with these feelings?


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09/07/2017 3:29 pm  

Hi Cbluefairy,  welcome!  And thank you for posting. You've raised  two of the most common challenges intuitive people have-- dealing with scary premonitions and feeling different or strange. I hope it will help to join this community.  You certainly won't feel different or strange here.

As for scary premonitions, that's something we've discussed in some classes, and there is a premonitions class coming up on December 4th in which we will talk about it.  How they happen, what kinds we get, the good ones, the scary ones.  What they mean. And how to deal with the scary ones so you are not living in perpetual anxiety. 

I hope others can offer ideas for you in this forum.  So glad you decided to join us.


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09/07/2017 8:36 pm  

Gracesinger,  Everything you have said resonates with me. The shift in thinking about aliens,  sensing that our minds are primitive, etc. I find myself thinking about how primitive we are, but I can't get my mind to advance.

I want to heal the divide but I don't know how. I feel the Republicans are clueless sheep following  wounded greedy oligarchs.  I feel sorry for them all for the awful karma they carry, but am also seething at the damage they've done to us all. I can't let anger drag me down, though. I go forest forest bathing everyday with my dog. Let the trees heal me. 


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09/07/2017 9:48 pm  

By the time I was 40 it seemed like life had visited the most distressing challenges on my mother's five children.  She sat on my back porch and marvelled at our ability to roll with the punches.  She said that she had learned to trust the next generation to be able to have the tools they needed to demonstrate resilience in the face of adversity.  I look at my daughter, nieces, and nephew and all of the young adults I encounter.  They all seem so naive and vulnerable, but I see their strengths, too, and they need all of the love and help we can give them, because they're going to have to navigate such an uncertain future.  We have to give them the gift of trust that they were born for this time and place to meet the challenges with tools we don't have.  We got them this far.  They'll dream up getting through the next leg in ways we can't imagine.  That's not a cop out; it's a gift; it's hope.  Jeanne you've shared the most lovely vision of community.  An article in the latest issue of The Atlantic describes the iGeneration as a throw away generation, but look at the seventh generation at Standing Rock, the youth in the Black Lives Movement.  They're an utterly lonely generation yearning for just one special friend and they're going to create loving communities.  I see your vision and I believe.  What a blessing you have given me through your sight.  Blessings on you, dear heart!  


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09/08/2017 12:36 am  

Hi, Jeanne:

You spoke to exactly the thing I struggle with that is the worst: Rage at the damage being done to the country by lying, selfish, greedy oligarchs.

It doesn't do my health any good to seethe with rage, or imagine what I'd like to do with it. Fries the nervous system, in fact. 

What has helped: Before I fall asleep, talking with my dead Grandfather about forgiveness. Requesting the angels of my better nature take this anger from me. Avoiding foods that 'heat the system' like hot spices. Getting out in nature and listening to the trees.  Loving my cat up real good.  Remembering that nature is remarkably resilient and will recover from our species.

The other thing I do is to watch the patterns of what is actually happening very carefully, and look down the road at the results.

I either heard or read this today--that in an upside down kind of way, the situation we're facing has had the enormous benefit of pulling us together. Resistance is NOT futile--it's giving birth to the new world.  The crap we're going through as a species is the same terrifying squeeze through the birth canal that we each faced as infants.  At the end of the long, hard squeeze is a new life.

What helps is looking for evidence of that life being born.

-R1-


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09/08/2017 12:52 am  

Love this, RuneStoneOne. Thank you.


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09/08/2017 9:38 pm  

My family who treated me horribly after Trump was elected (they are huge Trump supporters) are in the middle of Hurricane Irma, and frankly, I don't even care what happens to them.

What can happen to cause someone like me, who I consider to be so compassionate and caring and loving, feel that way towards a family member?

It scares me how cold I feel in regards to them. Maybe I have a much larger shadow self than I want to admit.

 


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09/09/2017 5:17 pm  
Posted by: Pacosurfer

My family who treated me horribly after Trump was elected (they are huge Trump supporters) are in the middle of Hurricane Irma, and frankly, I don't even care what happens to them.

What can happen to cause someone like me, who I consider to be so compassionate and caring and loving, feel that way towards a family member?

It scares me how cold I feel in regards to them. Maybe I have a much larger shadow self than I want to admit.

 

Maybe it's a survival mechanism and you're doing what you need to do to ensure your own self-protection and even survival. 


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09/09/2017 6:51 pm  

So true, D. 

Paco - You are a kind compassionate person, but it hurts too much to feel. So you feel nothing. They must have hurt you very badly, so you disconnected from them. But deep within, you still care. You still love them. The remedy is to take really good care of yourself. Practice loving kindness on yourself.  Whenever and if ever you find yourself putting yourself down, stop it. Pick yourself up like a small child who has been yelled at, and treat yourself tenderly. 

 


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09/09/2017 7:25 pm  

I read somewhere that when Trump won the election the Obama daughters were devastated, like so many of us. President Obama said to them and I'm paraphrasing " listen it's no the end of the world, the end of the world is the end of the world. This isn't the end". I found this to be both comforting and positive, life will go on but adjustments need to be made. The world is changing and it's happening fast, maybe for some overwhelmingly so. But we mustn't lose sight of how powerful we are. When I read and see on the news all the negative stuff that's going on, I take a deep breath and try to figure out how I might be of help, where in my life can I make positive changes. It's like what Trump has unleashed in America was deeply buried and now we need to look at it. Not just get angry and continue the hate, but where can we be better. Frankly, i think he makes me want to be a better person and he has reved up all of our humanity. I see it everyday, people helping each other and I know that Jeanne has mentioned that local gov't and individuals will be the ones to take care of the needs of the people, not those in Washington. I have great hope that we will see someday a better world and a people deserving of this beautiful planet.


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09/09/2017 7:35 pm  

Wow. Lola. Thank you. 


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09/09/2017 7:46 pm  

When I read how the Koch children were raised - the incredible abuse they experienced from a Nazi nanny. (She was literally a Nazi who loved Hitler so much that she finally quit the Koch's to move to Germany during the war and celebrate Hitler's success.)  And their father Fred was very harsh.  His wife Mary was terrified of him.  The kids must have suffered.  As they grew up, they hardened.  

When I read the Koch brothers I see their hearts are cut off.  They are numb to the pain they inflict.  I find it hard to empathize with them because of the lives they've ruined and hope to ruin.  But when Paco said she was numb,  and when I feel that same numbness, I at least understand that, deep inside the Koch's, they have hearts. And when people experience abuse, bullying or neglect, or they see others suffering from this, their hearts can close.


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09/09/2017 8:30 pm  

Thank you Jeanne for creating this safe haven and your gifts! I love coming here and reading everyone's insights, intuitions and ideas. It feels positive and hopeful, even when the visions are scary.??


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09/10/2017 11:16 am  

Poet David Whyte on trying to find a path into the unknown in his poem Santiago.  He talks about writing this and another poem here.  He was  inspired by his his 23 year old niece's 500 mile walk to the sea in Spain where he road ends at the sea, dropping away with  only sea in front of you after your long journey.  The groundless sea, he muses, is the future. It's the unknown.  

Santiago

The road seen, then not seen, the hillside
hiding then revealing the way you should take,
the road dropping away from you as if leaving you 
to walk on thin air, then catching you, holding you up,
when you thought you would fall - and the way forward 
always in the end, the way that you came, the way 
that you followed, that carried you into your future, 
that brought you to this place, no matter that
it sometimes had to take your promise from you,
no matter that it always had to break your heart 
along the way: the sense of having walked
from far inside yourself out into the revelation,
to have risked yourself for something that seemed 
to stand both inside you and far beyond you,
that called you back in the end to the only road
you could follow, walking as you did, in your rags of love...

Excerpt from “Santiago”
From Pilgrim: Poems by David Whyte

©2012 David Whyte,

 

 


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09/10/2017 1:16 pm  

That's absolutely beautiful, Jeanne!!

We may find ourselves stripped to the essentials, but if we can keep heart, we will make it through.

We now have the opportunity to strengthen ourselves by responding to the needs of the hurricane-torn. It gives heart to aid others.

-R1-


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09/12/2017 4:54 pm  

Oh, I've been thinking a lot lately how I have been coping with all the scary events and energy that seem to swirling around our country ( US) and the world lately. For me, since I am an artist I've been channeling my anxiety into creating artwork that symbolizes how I feel and depictions of angels protecting me, all of us - humanity, the earth, and positive  words of affirmation. I hung a huge 6'x3.5 embroidered tapestry on my stairwell wall of an angel - contained in the body are words and embroidered images of love, hope, strength, care, soul, etc. I also put images of things scaring the crap out of me in the body of two serpents, and the angel wings larger than the serpents engulfing them. I use it as an anchor- and I look at it and sometimes touch it as I am walking up and down my stairs. I am trying to be aware of the news, send light and pray everyday for leaders of the world to consider love and loving responses as a political action and I've been active volunteering, calling my reps, and meditating. Some days are better than others. But I am trying to be aware of the darkness, but to dwell and promote the light. Whatever your skill, your talent, your means of service do that with the best of intentions and the conscious awareness you are setting off ripples of light. Every little action helps. Having a community to be able to express yourself and help one another out processing these times is very helpful. Thank you so much Jeanne, and everyone on this site!


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09/13/2017 9:15 am  

Absolutely beautiful, wonderful, and perfect in so many ways, Shawn!

It is a great blessing to be able create in any creative art form and to share with others. Members have shared under a number of forum topic categories from "Coping...." to sharing "Dreams..." to sharing "Poetry..." to sharing "Angels..." and angelic visitations in our lives.

For many of us these reinforce hope as well as faith in a better world and future during trying times.

Love even the beautiful imagery of your tapestry on the stairway ❣ I have a simple textile prayer flag that I made hanging along my stairs that I pass many times a day and your post illuminated my own subconscious use of a bird/its nest etc. So thank you! Sometimes "hope IS a thing with feathers" whether its avian or celestial❣

 

 


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09/13/2017 10:02 pm  

Joanna Macy has helped me with these issues.  Just listening to her speak inspires and heals me. Here's the trailer to a movie one of her students made about her. He was so inspired by her that he went out and learned how to make a movie, then created an amazing film  https://vimeo.com/91432290

She also spoke about the Shambhala Prophecy, which also has inspired me.  https://vimeo.com/191169785

 


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09/14/2017 8:38 am  

I watched the Joanna Macy's video and chills ran through me. The Shambhala Prophecy- the heart warriors that set off ripples of light! Yes, this is exactly what the world needs now and exactly the challenge we are to undertake. Thank you for sharing the video. This clarifies things for me. As Joanna said, well now I have my marching orders.


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09/14/2017 8:48 am  

I was not familiar with Joanna Macy before being drawn to this site and deciding to join in May. But once I was here and after Jeanne's first class on May 8th, I opened and read every page, every forum or blog post and every link.

And learning about Joanna Mavy then, from my readibg here, and visiting her webpage and learning about "The Great Turning" and Creational Spirituality felt very validating and connective to me.

And now...thank you, Jeanne... for this Shamballa Prophecy link as well...courage and wisdom have bern my prayers for growth since 2000 and this further adds to my feeling connected.

To know that 'not knowing how things will turn out" carries its own great  power is actually quite wonderful..reminds me of Tibetan riddles or koans in the student-teacher discourses as they sit across from one another for hours and hours if not days.

Lots to appreciate as well as think about here..everywhere here!


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09/14/2017 8:54 am  

There's more. The Shambhala Prophecy sounds a lot like a vision I had in 1985. And my 1985 vision sounds astonishingly similar to the story Charles Eisenstein recounts in his 2015 book The More Beautiful World Our Hearts Know is Possible.

My 1985 vision (which I shared with all my clients back then) :  I had just begun giving readings when I got a vision that the people who were coming for the readings were part of a tribe from a far off place, far off in time and space.  

They' came here (myself included) in streams of light that flowed right into mothers' wombs.  (They are still coming here today.) They grew up here, suffered  the troubles of our world, many had to deal with difficult families and social life because they had powerful intuitive gifts, even when they weren't aware of it.  

When they had worked through enough of their issues, they would emerge as guides to others.  But often many of them acted as guides to their family when they were children, even if the families didn't appreciate them.

When the time was right, each would begin their true soul's work here. When the climate surge in our world hits, which I feel started in 2017, the many from the tribe would feel an urgency to begin the work they came here to do.

I also believe that people who have been connecting to my website are also part of the tribe. Then there are many others who are connecting to teachers all over the world so that they can equip themselves to do their soul's work.  

Who would they be helping?  I was shown refugees flowing out of a major U.S. coastal city which I thought was New York, but perhaps it represented more than one city. The refugees were mostly young well-clad people who were going to need to deal emotionally and spiritually with major earth changes. I was shown light workers who would be pulling them out of the water to higher ground. I took that image as a metaphor for people who'd be helped to deal with the overwhelming emotional issues of having to adjust to a new world. 

There was much more to this vision, but that's the gist. 

Then last year, I read a similar story at the end of  Charles Eisenstein's book  A More Beautiful World that Our Hearts Know is Possible. He asks us to imagine a place in a far away planet or galaxy that is highly evolved.  

Both places where Eisenstein's tribe and my tribe easily fit the idea of Shambhala, with the inhabitants being the Tibetan prophecy's Shambhala Warrior.

 Here's what Eisenstein wrote: 

A Gathering of the Tribe (excerpted from Charles Eisenstein, The More Beautiful World Our Hearts Know is Possible found in CharlesEisenstein.net  

Once upon a time a great tribe of people lived in a world far away from ours. Whether far away in space, or in time, or even outside of time, we do not know. They lived in a state of enchantment and joy that few of us today dare to believe could exist, except in those exceptional peak experiences when we glimpse the true potential of life and mind.

One day the elders of the tribe called a meeting. They gathered around, and one of them spoke very solemnly. “My friends,” she said, “there is a world that needs our help. It is called Earth, and its fate hangs in the balance. Its humans have reached a critical point in their collective birthing, the same point our own planet was at one million years ago, and they will be stillborn without our help. Who would like to volunteer for a mission to this time and place, and render service to humanity?”

“Tell us more about this mission,” they asked.

“It is no small thing. Our shaman will put you into a deep, deep trance, so complete that you will forget who you are. You will live a human life, and in the beginning you will completely forget your origins. You will forget even our language and your own true name. You will be separated from the wonder and beauty of our world, and from the love that bathes us all. You will miss it deeply, yet you will be unable to name what you are missing. You will remember the love and beauty that we know to be normal only as a longing in your heart. Your memory will take the form of an intuitive knowledge, as you plunge into the painfully marred Earth, that a more beautiful world is possible.

“As you grow up in that world, your knowledge will be under constant assault. You will be told in a million ways that a world of destruction, violence, drudgery, anxiety, and degradation is normal. You may go through a time when you are completely alone, with no allies to affirm your knowledge of a more beautiful world. You may plunge into a depth of despair that we, in our world of light, cannot imagine. But no matter what, a spark of knowledge will never leave you. A memory of your true origin will be encoded in your DNA. That spark will lie within you, inextinguishable, until one day it is awakened.

“You see, even though you will feel, for a time, utterly alone, you will not be alone. We will send you assistance, help that you will experience as miraculous, experiences that you will describe as transcendent. These will fan that spark into a flame. For a few moments or hours or days, you will reawaken to the beauty and the joy that is meant to be. You will see it on Earth, for even though the planet and its people are deeply wounded, there is beauty there still, projected from past and future onto the present as a promise of what is possible and a reminder of what is real.

“After that glimpse, the flame may die down into an ember again as the routines of normal life there swallow you up. But after each awakening, they will seem less normal, and the story of that world will seem less real. The ember will glow brighter. When enough embers do that, they will all burst into flame together and sustain each other.

“Because remember, you will not be there alone. As you begin to awaken to your mission you will meet others of our tribe. You will recognize them by your common purpose, values, and intuitions, and by the similarity of the paths you have walked. As the condition of the planet Earth reaches crisis proportions, your paths will cross more and more. The time of loneliness, the time of thinking you might be crazy, will be over.

“You will find the people of your tribe all over the Earth, and become aware of them through the long-distance communication technologies used on that planet. But the real shift, the real quickening, will happen in face-to-face gatherings in special places. When many of you gather together you will launch a new stage on your journey, a journey that, I assure you, will end where it begins right now. Then, the mission that lay unconscious within you will flower into consciousness. Your intuitive rebellion against the world presented to you as normal will become an explicit quest to create a more beautiful one.”

A woman said, “Tell us more about the time of loneliness, that we might prepare for it.”

The elder said, “In the time of loneliness, you will always be seeking to reassure yourself that you are not crazy. You will do that by telling people all about what is wrong with the world, and you will feel a sense of betrayal when they don’t listen to you. You might hunger for stories of wrongness, atrocity, and ecological destruction, all of which confirm the validity of your intuition that a more beautiful world exists. But after you have fully received the help we will send you, and the quickening of your gatherings, you will no longer need to do that. Because you will know. Your energy will thereafter turn toward actively creating that more beautiful world.”

A tribeswoman asked, “How do you know this will work? Are you sure our shaman’s powers are great enough to send us on such a journey?”

The elder replied, “I know it will work because he has done it many times before. Many have already been sent to Earth, to live human lives, and to lay the groundwork for the mission you will undertake now. He’s been practicing! The only difference now is that many of you will venture there at once. What is new in the time you will live in, is that you will gather in critical mass, and each awaken the other to your mission. The heat you will generate will kindle the same spark that lies in every human being, for in truth, each one is from a tribe like ours. The whole galaxy and beyond is converging on Earth, for never before has a planet journeyed so far into Separation and made it back again. Those of you who go will be part of a new step in cosmic evolution.”

A tribesman asked, “Is there a danger we will become lost in that world, and never wake up from the shamanic trance? Is there a danger that the despair, the cynicism, the pain of separation will be so great that it will extinguish the spark of hope, the spark of our true selves and origin, and that we will be separated from our beloved ones forever?”

The elder replied, “That is impossible. The more deeply you get lost, the more powerful the help we will send you. You might experience it at the time as a collapse of your personal world, the loss of everything important to you. Later you will recognize the gift within it. We will never abandon you.”

Another man asked, “Is it possible that our mission will fail, and that this planet, Earth, will perish?”

The elder replied, “I will answer your question with a paradox. It is impossible that your mission will fail. Yet, its success hangs on your own actions. The fate of the world is in your hands. The key to this paradox lies within you, in the feeling you carry that each of your actions, even your personal, secret struggles, has cosmic significance. You will know then, as you know now, that everything you do matters.”

There were no more questions. The volunteers gathered in a circle, and the shaman went to each one. The last thing each was aware of was the shaman blowing smoke in his or her face. They entered a deep trance and dreamed themselves into the world where we find ourselves today.   -- Charles Eisenstein a.r.r.  You can order his book here.  Its a great book as are all his books.

There is more that I received about the tribe that I was told was coming for readings. I'll start a separate thread on it soon. 

 

 


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09/14/2017 9:41 am  

Jeanne, Yes! Yes! Yes! Absolutely yes!

 

 

 


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09/14/2017 11:08 am  

Thank you Jeanne for sharing your amazing vision and this beautiful story by Charles Eisentein. As I was reading tears were steaming down my cheeks, all too real yet again hopeful...


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09/14/2017 10:51 pm  

Thank you for this!


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09/15/2017 2:51 pm  

Hi guys 

I am definitely in need of support. At my wedding recently, some guests were preaching the merits of Trump to Canadians. One guest (a trump voter) also wrote us a long letter about the importance of accepting Jesus Christ into our lives. Reading that letter privately later I felt that me and my husband are now going to lose a friend because we refuse to adopt their Christian literalist world view (and this is a child hood friend of my husband). My coworker has just joked that I couldn't live anywhere except Cambridge because of how liberal I am. I moved to the United States from Canada in 2016, and I increasingly feel trapped here. I feel claustrophobic, like I can't escape and am forced to live the rest of my life here, when all I want to do is run away. Problem is I want to run away with my husband who wants to stay here. I am tired of being told I'm overreacting, tired of listening to people praise Trump and staying silent, tired of being told how lucky I am to be living in the United States (really?!??!?) as if every other country is inferior. I am just tired.

Sorry for the rant. 

Natalie


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09/15/2017 4:36 pm  

Natalie,

Welcome to the USA!  As you may have noticed, many of my fellow countrymen don't get out much. Most have never been through a modern Asian or European airport, ridden a fast, quit, and convenient intercity train, or walked the streets of a very, very walkable European city like London or Dublin. Most of us have no frame of reference, in other words. Most of us don't know that our potholed streets, inefficient public transportation, or crowded and dirty airports would simply not be tolerated in much of the western world, or eastern world for that matter. My parent's generation (our "greatest" generation) did live at a time where we led the world in most things including infrastructure. Unfortunately, the rest of the developed world and much of the developing world is passing us by and we are too insular to realize it. 

As a Unitarian, (check us out if there is a church in your area - you might find some like-minded people), I have been told many times that I am bound for hell in a handbasket unless I mend my ways. I tell them that I am comfortable with my faith and appreciate their concern.

I hope things get better for you and also hope that your husband gives you the kind of love and support you need. I'm glad you are here and if you lived out in the sticks of central Illinois, my wife and I would be happy to make your acquaintance.  I hope you can find like-minded friends where you live so you won't feel isolated. 

Take care.

 


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09/15/2017 5:41 pm  

Natalie, would your husband be willing to move to a more liberal region? I'm a pagan who grew up in an atheist family and we always managed to find friendship and community. I promise that there are a lot of people in the US who are not Trump supporters, or religiously conservative.


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09/15/2017 8:05 pm  

Beautiful story that makes so much sense. Thank you for sharing, Jean!


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