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What a nightmare! I’m so sorry, Pam. I can’t imagine such a loss! All I know is that it’s like being in the Twilight Zone for some time. One day, finally, you will feel a little better. Please keep friends/family nearby and perhaps find a therapist and/or group. Such a loss is such a shock to a person....
Dear Pam, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Our lives are so very fragile and everything can change in an instant. How precious are those days, weeks, months and years that you and your husband shared. I imagine you must still be reeling from the shock of this sudden loss. There’s no way to deal with this except slowly and one day at a time. I am praying for you and that you be protected as you experience this time of grief and transition. Be gentle with yourself. Give yourself permission to grieve. Treat yourself as you would treat your dearest, most treasured friend. Remember all the time you and your husband shared and remember that with gratitude. Gratitude will help you deal with loss. Sending you much love and healing as you find your way on this new and unexpected path. You will be okay.
Oh, dearest, dearest Pam!
There are many among us who know this intense and heart rending pain of the loss of a deeply loved one.
It is a loss like no other, best understood by those of us who have faced and survived after many challenging pain filled years the enormity of a grieving process such as yours.
Among us are those who have lost spouses, partners, best friends, children and siblings that have created such pain in our physical and emotional hearts.
There are many here now, who are facing the illness or potential loss of a beloved parent, spouse, a child or even deeply loved animal children who are already on your path with such inconsolable loss that they wonder if they can survive what you have already unbearably experienced.
Our hearts and our arms reach out to hold you, to feel for you, to join you in shared pain and grief.
You are never alone. The hearts and lights of many are surrounding you, loving you, loving your dear husband.
We feel his love around and in and a true part of you. Now and forever more.
Please just know we love you without having met either of you because we know your pain and we know your deep, deep love and know his love and your love will someday be greater in their depths of meaning in a way that will bit by bit help to soften and ease this challenging, challenging time.
Love to you from all of us here.
Love, light, and healing prayers,